Women who want men to move a certain way in bed may make noises that signal pleasure. It turns men on so much they don’t ask the famous question after the sex act is over. She must be convincing though. It amazes women when men ask them if it was good to them. That’s almost like an insult because it makes women feel there was a lack of communication and that something was missing.
Men can react in a similar fashion. Men who normally are silent lovers, for instance, and seek a certain response from their mates may grunt or moan or act as if they are losing control. It often makes women believe they are doing something special, something irresistible, and it’s something they likely will look forward to doing.
Foreplay, which includes sensual touching, talking romantically and stroking, always help. It’s necessary for fulfilling sex, because a woman’s erotic zones are not centralized in one area.
A wife can tease the husband by predicting he will help her reach a certain level of satisfaction that drives her wild. If she acts as though she wants him physically but she’s afraid of losing control and embarrassing herself when they make love, he likely will do everything he can to help her reach that point.
The husband, on the other hand, may pretend to be hesitant to sleep with her because she has certain powers over him that can be embarrassing. He may say, “Honey, it was so good I just couldn’t forget it.”
That boosts her ego. It’s like saying, “Yes, he needs me in this process.” She feels valued and confident about her abilities.
If a wife’s doing something a husband thinks will lead to something good, then he needs to let her know that by responding either physically or verbally. And she’s likely to continue those moves or those behaviors.
Authorities say women learn when their mates are fibbing, but may not complain so long as they are convinced he wants to satisfy them. They also want to be assured he honestly desires them. So they go along with his pretensions or fibs to help him get as much out of the sex act as possible, and they feign ignorance.
Indeed, sexual signals, whether fake or real, can really improve your marriage.
Lastly, the main thing to remember here is that open and honest communication results in more fulfilling sex life and a harmonious relationship.
