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Many couples feel that their sex life is losing its spark. They think that sex has become boring. People fall in sexual rut because of their never changing lifestyles. Once a way to satisfy their spouse is discovered, they do it repetitively, until they both are bored. While, there is no magic solution for this problem, you can spice up your sex life by introducing your partner to sex toys. With little willingness to discover new things and some openness, you will be amazed to see how one change can lead to a more fulfilling sex life.

Start with simple sex accessories

Getting a vibrator or bringing sexual lubricants to your bedroom will make sex less painful and more pleasurable. Some couples enjoy shopping for sexy toys together. These days, everything from whips and chocolate body paints to dildos is available. Start slow with body paints and then upgrade to other accessories and sex toys. Do not feel embarrassed when you are shopping for these sex accessories with your spouse. Instead, you should discuss it openly with your partner, and try to have fun not only while using them but also while shopping for them.

Convince your partner

Many women are embarrassed to buy sex toys. They think that buying or using a sex toy would disappoint their partner. This is not true. Many men would love being adventurous in the bedroom. If your spouse is not comfortable with the idea of using a sex toy, you can talk and make him/her understand that exploring your body is absolutely normal. Try to understand your partner’s needs too and order toys that you both can use like the strap on. There are many female friendly sex shops, and you can even buy sex toys online.

Get a couple sex toy

If you are waiting to attain new heights of pleasure in your bedroom, you can start with erection bands and vibrating cock rings. A cock ring fits around the penis and releases vibrations, which benefits both the partners. An erection band aids in prolonging the man’s performance by helping him maintain erection and last longer. You can use vibrators as well. Vibrators are devices designed to vibrate against the body and produce a pleasurable feeling. Dildos are intended for penetration and are mostly used by single women. So, it might not be a good idea to use a dildo in bed with your partner, it will only make your partner feel uncomfortable.

Making the most of your sex life

Not everyone is comfortable with the idea of a sex toy, but openness is the key. First, try to know your body, and understand your needs. Sex toys are not just used to improve sex lives, but also to cater to your psychological arousal needs. Some women do not have sufficient blood flow in their genital area. This problem can be solved by using a vibrator.
Enjoy the ride, and do not be too focused on change, as this will increase expectations about your sex life. The main ingredients of a good sex life other than sex toys are passion, imagination, and enthusiasm. Keep yourself open to new ideas and give more love to your partner. This will keep your relationship alive.

Seeking passion in their love life and wanting to enhance their sexual pleasure, both men and women harbour deep sexual fantasies. While some resemble the regular sex activities, others maybe wild in nature.

Some are even inspired by porn flicks. It’s not a bad idea to get down and dirty and introduce some adventure into your sex act by reenacting your sexual fantasies.

We’ve heard much about common sexual desires like making out on a secluded beach, having sex with an unknown stranger, seeing your partner undress in the light and duplicating porn stars etc. But have you ever heard of someone making love in a hot air balloon 1,000 feet above the ground or getting intimate with a fully clad partner in the elevator or storage room?

Dr. Chirta Bakshi, a relationship counselor explains, “Fantasies play a really crucial role in a couples’ sexual life as it can decide on their pleasure quotient. It has everything to make or break their sexual bonding. If fantasies are fulfilled, they can do magic and if not it they can insert trouble in the sexual paradise. The nature of a fantasy also matters because depending on his/her partner’s comfort levels -couples can make an effort to execute their fantasies together.”

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In the middle of a great lovemaking session, you suddenly realize your partner is not sharing your rhythm, the ecstatic pitch. You feel he isn’t so into you in that moment of extreme physical intimacy.Is-he thinking-of-someone-else or he-doesn’t-find-me-sexually-attractive-anymore kind of thoughts cloud your mind instantly. Mostly women are able to sense this sudden change in their spouse’s body language while in the act. For them, it is an excruciatingly frustrating experience which leads them to see sexologists, make amends to their lifestyle, and read up on how to be desirable again.

But what exactly triggers sexual fantasies while having sex? Does it spell doom for a relationship? Is dissatisfaction a plausible reason or another myth? Here are some interesting finding… Read the rest of this entry »

Men have traditionally been touted as the ‘hungry for sex’ species. With a comparatively higher sex drive than their female partner, men are often expected to assume charge while performing in bed and are held responsible for a gratifying act too.

But why are men having all the fun? Women too can act bold when it comes to showing off their sex drive. But how?

Dr. Deepak Arora, a sexologist elucidates, “Men love their wives to have sex and wives have sex to get love from their men, in this way they become a supplement for each other. So if the female partner starts taking an equal interest in the act of intimacy; it can bring them closer to each other and they can enjoy a healthy sexual relationship.” Read the rest of this entry »

If you thought men’s sexual response is quite simple and their needs can be met easily, then you certainly need to revise your knowledge of the “birds and bees,” for men aren’t as simple as they are made out to be.

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