We have written this article in an effort to explain the female orgasm so that men can understand what exactly happens to a woman during orgasm & maybe give them some insight on this subject. We hope that by better understanding the female orgasm men may redirect their attention away from their own pleasure somewhat & work towards helping their lovers achieve orgasm. We also hope this section will help with a female question we have heard over & over. How do I know when I’ve had an orgasm? This question is actually more common than one would think. Overall, by de-mystifying both the female & male orgasm somewhat we hope to open the minds & educate both lovers so that each can have a better understanding of their lovers desires & needs & become more sensitive to each others needs. We would ask that both lovers read each orgasm section & discuss what they feel before, during & after an orgasm. These accounts of the sensations during orgasm are derived from different women & may not be exactly what you feel during orgasm, so take the time to explain your personal sensations to your lover. This communication between you could lead to changes in your sexual practices by both parties, leading to a more pleasurable experience for both.

